I can't remember how many times I decided to turn down an offer. It is sort of a resemblance to my love life in the way that I am stucked with what I have / can't have. After thinking over and over again, I am just not comfortable making the move. This time, I even considered there is something still worth to pursue in my current role. For guys, perhaps career is more than moving on to a new job. It is also about building your resume; anticipating what kind of competition you would encounter; working to survive the changes in the job market. This is an ongoing revival process.